Thursday, May 23, 2013

Amazon.. and The Story Behind My Tree Book

My book is on Amazon!  Click here to buy it!

This makes me feel so very proud, and so excited.  I came up with the idea for this book several years ago, and people keep asking me why I wrote this book, and how I thought it up.

Here's the story behind the story.

Basically, the book is just true.

Mike's parents have a lovely home in Edgartown, and we have been going there every summer ever since we have been together.  When Maddie was so little, she WOULD get woken up by the loud birds at the Vineyard at 5:00 a.m., and I'd whisk her off into town to get bagels at Espresso Love while everyone else slept to a more respectable time.  I loved these times, we would wander around the town together while it was all sleepy and peaceful, and look at the ocean, and it was beautiful and a wonderful start to our day.  On these walks we could not help but admire and discuss the TREMENDOUS PAGODA TREE, and I created a long and involved telling of what we call "the story of the tree."  I researched it a bit online and told this story like a million times.

I had this Uncle who passed away 12 years ago, almost exactly. Uncle Joe was very into saving trees, and boats and the sea, and he had a little white dog named Zep, and then another little white dog named Pandora, and he was amazing and I loved him very much.  It seemed awfully fitting to write this story about the tree and incorporate him and his dog as the inspiration for the captain.

So I wrote it, dedicated it to Uncle Joe, and found amazing Nicole Gsell to illustrate it.

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

A piece from a speech I gave on "Nurturing Your Child's Inner Artist" at USES's THINK ART THINK SMART event



I am a mother of 3, ages 7, 5, 2.  I was a corporate lawyer, and felt a calling to teach.  I got my Masters in Education and taught in 2nd and 5th grade classrooms.  Since having kids, I’ve taught art and theatre to preschool aged children, and I now teach preschool part time at the Corner Coop in brookline.  I also homeschool my daughter who is seven - and have for kindergarden and first grade.   I recently wrote a children’s book about a historic tree at Martha’s Vineyard, and I’m now working on another book which will come out next spring.  When I was asked to speak at this conference I was initially overwhelmed by the many hats I wear with respect to art and education and the many ways I could address this topic...perhaps that can be another book!


But I only have a few minutes right now...so I want to discuss what I feel is the truly most important way for an adult to nurture a child’s inner artist - or for that matter - anyone’s inner artist.  And that is through the messages we give.  


When we are parenting, teaching, babysitting, or caring for children we are constantly sending messages to our children - messages about what is good and bad, desirable and undesirable, important and unimportant.  We send these messages explicitly, by telling children that certain things are “good” or “bad.”  Or by sharing certain stories or anecdotes designed to teach our children.  We implicitly send messages by choosing activities and schools and playdates for our children, and for how we allow them to spend their free time.  We send messages by what - if any - television we allow them to watch, what books we read to them, and by how we as adults interact with other adults, how we as adults spend our free time, and how we as adults interact with the world as a whole.


So when we consider the plight of arts in education - a plight that we at this conference are all aware of, a plight we all want to work to changing - we cannot ignore that we as parents or caregivers can be really incredibly powerful figures of influence in the development of our children as artists.


If we set an intention today, this moment, at this conference to make art and artistic endeavors a priority in our families and communities, we can impact change.  Let me give you an example.  Let’s say a second grader comes home with a story written about an adventure.  The story is cute and funny, and has a couple of illustrations.  Lets imagine reading the story.  The parent might say, “Wow, what a great story!  You’re such a good writer.”  Or imagine the child got a good grade on the story - we as adults would probably praise the grade.  If we then look at this story with the perspective of making arts a priority, we would probably focus first on the illustrations.  We would tell the child, “Wow, you are a great artist.” and then, “It’s a great story.”  You might discuss how certain elements of the story are in the illustrations.  You could praise the color scheme, and the expressions on the drawings of people or animals.   You could ask the child to explain the pictures.



A recent article discussing this issue stated, '"Art does not solve problems, but makes us aware of their existence," sculptor Magdalena Abakanowicz has said. Arts education, on the other hand, does solve problems. Years of research show that it's closely linked to almost everything that we as a nation say we want for our children and demand from our schools: academic achievement, social and emotional development, civic engagement, and equitable opportunity. Involvement in the arts is associated with gains in math, reading, cognitive ability, critical thinking, and verbal skill. Arts learning can also improve motivation, concentration, confidence, and teamwork."

We all know that children who do art are smarter, more well adusted, and happier.  So, don’t we all want our children to be artists?  We need to send them the messages that allows them to identifiy themselves as artists.  Adults can do that by simply saying to children on a daily basis, “You are a really good artist.”  Or, “My little artist, can you get your shoes on so we can go?”  Or “Hey artsy kiddo - go brush your teeth.”  

We can also point out both the author AND the illustrator when we read books to our children.  We can take them to art galleries and art museums, and point out art in public places, statues, paintings, murals, graffiti, animation, architecture, art is everywhere.  Most of us live in Boston, a city rich in art, history, and beauty.  The definition of art is as broad as you make it.  Teach your children, and the children around you that art is everywhere, art is important, and that they are creators of beautiful, important art.
I created this sheet of little phrases and conversation starters about art.  I’ll have them at our table after this talk (email me and I will send you one amymacdoug@gmail.com).  Please stop by and grab one, and hang it on your fridge, or on a cabinet or cork board, somewhere you will see it and be reminded to send positive messages about art to your children.  The more they hear it, the more they will believe it and identify with the fact that they are all amazing artists, and that they should draw, paint, create in any way.  That their art is important, and valuable, and unique, and excellent.

The great majority of preschoolers consider themselves to be artists.  This number dwindles as children get older.  This is because schools, society, and parents teach children that art is NOT as important as math, as reading, as writing, as “real” school.  Art class is a distant memory in many schools, replaced by a perception that classroom teachers can implement art by integrating it into other, more important subjects.  I don’t think art plays a big part of the MCAS.  If we decide as parents and caregivers, as adults, that art is an integral part of life and an integralp part of real school, and make that our priority, our children will hear these messages.  They will know that they are artists - for all of us are artists, there is truly no bad art - and they will know that art is important, art is necessary, and art is something to care about.  

“Every child is an artist. The problem is how to remain an artist once we grow up”
Pablo Picasso

Sunday, April 28, 2013

The Same House

We got back from Frankfurt yesterday.  We signed a lease - in German - so who knows what it really says?  Our relocation person said it was fine and so we signed it.  Anyhow, it starts July 1 and has radiant floor heating which is something very specific I wanted.  But in every way, it's perfect, very similar to our old house in Back Bay, which I wanted, since I love our Brookline house but I think it's a bit too big for our needs right now.  Best location, brand new, big elevator apartment building, big deck, all fabulouso, and funnily enough it has the same open floor plan and kitchen with an island as this house and our old house and our house before that, we keep moving to the same house over and over...  

It makes it all seem so real that we are going there.  I was super impressed with Frankfurt though, I wanted to move there so we could travel more and for the adventure of it all but after being there I am excited to live THERE, just so many nice parks and the trains are fast and easy, and the people are SO NICE.  People say Germans can be unfriendly but honestly I think they are THE nicest people ever.  My experience is that they are darlings, and they love my children, and are very kind and helpful.  Very exciting.  

Friday, April 19, 2013

Lockdown?

So it's 10:09am here in Brookline, Mass.  They killed one Marathon bomber and are chasing the other to the ends of the earth and nobody here is allowed to leave the house.  It's nuts that this is happening right here.  I'm trying my best to explain to my kids what is happening in a kid-friendly way, and entertain them with various media devices while I watch the news and see what is happening, here, right now.

This makes me realize that this is the first time I have watched the news in maybe one and a half or two years.  I was never a news junkie but we did watch the evening news, I felt the need to stay informed.  I gave it up after reading some statistic about how many good amazing things happen each and every day, and how if the news covered all the good in the world, there would be less than a split second dedicated to the awfulness.  And, our brains and adrenaline systems are not capable of watching tragedies on the news and not vicerally being affected by it.  So, I gave it up.  My sole source of news has been Facebook, CNN breaking news email updates, and word of mouth.  And I've felt much happier because of it.  Because most of the tragedies in the world simply do not affect our family.

This is NOT the case today.  The Marathon Bombing occurred in what I consider my back yard.  And, Brookline is one of the towns under lockdown today.  So, in this instance, I want to watch the news, and know what is going on, since it is happening here and now.  I've never experienced anything like this.  It feels surreal.

But I know that we need to remain positive.  I feel lucky to live in an area with such wonderful resources for law enforcement.  I feel lucky for my safe, happy family.  And I send much love and light to all those affected by the events that occurred this week.

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Love and Light

Much love and light to all those affected by the Marathon tragedy.  xo

Monday, April 15, 2013

Book Events!

SO this is the cover to my book!  I'm so proud of it!  I'm in the process of planning events related to my book.  

Thus far:

1.  May 7 - Speaking at http://www.uses.org/index.php?page=about&family=involved&category=01--Think_Art_Think_Smart

2.  Hosting a book celebration with Taylor Wells (author of Create the Best Life Ever) at the Coolidge Corner Library on May 18th.

3.  Having a signing at Healthworks, on May 21, from 8-11:30am.

4.  Having a signing at My Gym Boston during their Open Gym time on Monday, May 13.  

5.  Doing a reading and craft activity at Tiny Hanger, probably on May 27.

6.  Doing an event at Edgartown Books, on May 25, at 10:30am.

7.  Doing some other events in Edgartown, which the Edgartown Librarian is looking into, over Memorial Day.

It's funny timing with going to Germany and all, since I feel like I could spend ALL SUMMER doing book events, and still have more to do, and I'll be leaving mid-June.  But at least I have no worries about getting burned out!!!





Thursday, April 11, 2013

Memories of our New Home

In 10 days we go to Frankfurt to look for an apartment.  I'm beyond excited.  I haven't been to Frankfurt since I was in middle school, and even then just for a night on the way to and from South Africa, and I have such vague childhood memories of it.

We're moving our whole family to this new city for three years and my only memories of it are:

1.  My mom squeezing my arm in the taxi into Frankfurt from the airport because we were driving so fast.
2.  Snowflakes dancing in the air, and tall buildings.
3.  Feather comforters in the hotels.
4.  Really really nice waitresses.
5.  Getting lice and my mom flipping through her German phrasebook to explain what lice is to the pharmacist, and then just putting my sister on the counter to show him.  And then her picking the lice out of our hair in the hotel room.

That's it.

So I'm really excited to go and SEE where we will be living, so I can really picture it.  I'm excited to find our new home and know that it will be ours for three years.  Then this whole crazy adventure will start to seem REAL.